I came across this list via a cute friend's blog, and I thought it was worth sharing with all of you! Personal confession: I know I have been guilty of doing all 30 of these things to myself at some point in my life - some at the same time. So in light of the New Year, here are some good little reminders for us all. Enjoy!
1. Stop spending time with the wrong
people. – Life is too short to spend time with people who suck the happiness
out of you. If someone wants you in
their life, they’ll make room for you.
You shouldn’t have to fight for a spot.
Never, ever insist yourself to someone who continuously overlooks your
worth. And remember, it’s not the people
that stand by your side when you’re at your best, but the ones who stand beside
you when you’re at your worst that are your true friends.
2. Stop running from your problems. –
Face them head on. No, it won’t be
easy. There is no person in the world
capable of flawlessly handling every punch thrown at them. We aren’t supposed to be able to instantly
solve problems. That’s not how we’re
made. In fact, we’re made to get upset,
sad, hurt, stumble and fall. Because
that’s the whole purpose of living – to face problems, learn, adapt, and solve
them over the course of time. This is
what ultimately molds us into the person we become.
3. Stop lying to yourself. – You can
lie to anyone else in the world, but you can’t lie to yourself. Our lives improve only when we take chances,
and the first and most difficult chance we can take is to be honest with ourselves. Read The Road Less Traveled .
4. Stop putting your own needs on the
back burner. – The most painful thing is losing yourself in the process of
loving someone too much, and forgetting that you are special too. Yes, help others; but help yourself too. If there was ever a moment to follow your
passion and do something that matters to you, that moment is now.
5. Stop trying to be someone you’re
not. – One of the greatest challenges in life is being yourself in a world
that’s trying to make you likeeveryone else.
Someone will always be prettier, someone will always be smarter, someone
will always be younger, but they will never be you. Don’t change so people will like you. Be yourself and the right people will love
the real you.
6. Stop trying to hold onto the past. –
You can’t start the next chapter of your life if you keep re-reading your last
one.
7. Stop being scared to make a mistake.
– Doing something and getting it wrong is at least ten times more productive
than doing nothing. Every success has a
trail of failures behind it, and every failure is leading towards success. You end up regretting the things you did NOT
do far more than the things you did.
8. Stop berating yourself for old
mistakes. – We may love the wrong person and cry about the wrong things, but no
matter how things go wrong, one thing is for sure, mistakes help us find the
person and things that are right for us.
We all make mistakes, have struggles, and even regret things in our
past. But you are not your mistakes, you
are not your struggles, and you are here NOW with the power to shape your day
and your future. Every single thing that
has ever happened in your life is preparing you for a moment that is yet to
come.
9. Stop trying to buy happiness. – Many
of the things we desire are expensive.
But the truth is, the things that really satisfy us are totally free –
love, laughter and working on our passions.
10. Stop exclusively looking to others for
happiness. – If you’re not happy with who you are on the inside, you won’t be
happy in a long-term relationship with anyone else either. You have to create stability in your own life
first before you can share it with someone else. Read Stumbling on Happiness .
11. Stop being idle. – Don’t think too
much or you’ll create a problem that wasn’t even there in the first place. Evaluate situations and take decisive
action. You cannot change what you
refuse to confront. Making progress
involves risk. Period! You can’t make it to second base with your
foot on first.
12. Stop thinking you’re not ready. –
Nobody ever feels 100% ready when an opportunity arises. Because most great opportunities in life
force us to grow beyond our comfort zones, which means we won’t feel totally
comfortable at first.
13. Stop getting involved in relationships
for the wrong reasons. – Relationships must be chosen wisely. It’s better to be alone than to be in bad
company. There’s no need to rush. If something is meant to be, it will happen –
in the right time, with the right person, and for the best reason. Fall in love
when you’re ready, not when you’re lonely.
14. Stop rejecting new relationships just
because old ones didn’t work. – In life you’ll realize that there is a purpose
for everyone you meet. Some will test
you, some will use you and some will teach you.
But most importantly, some will bring out the best in you.
15. Stop trying to compete against
everyone else. – Don’t worry about what others doing better than you. Concentrate on beating your own records every
day. Success is a battle between YOU and
YOURSELF only.
16. Stop being jealous of others. –
Jealousy is the art of counting someone else’s blessings instead of your
own. Ask yourself this: “What’s something I have that everyone
wants?”
17. Stop complaining and feeling sorry for
yourself. – Life’s curveballs are thrown for a reason – to shift your path in a
direction that is meant for you. You may
not see or understand everything the moment it happens, and it may be tough. But reflect back on those negative curveballs
thrown at you in the past. You’ll often
see that eventually they led you to a better place, person, state of mind, or
situation. So smile! Let everyone know that today you are a lot
stronger than you were yesterday, and you will be.
18. Stop holding grudges. – Don’t live
your life with hate in your heart. You
will end up hurting yourself more than the people you hate. Forgiveness is not saying, “What you did to
me is okay.” It is saying, “I’m not
going to let what you did to me ruin my happiness forever.” Forgiveness is the answer… let go, find
peace, liberate yourself! And remember,
forgiveness is not just for other people, it’s for you too. If you must, forgive yourself, move on and try
to do better next time.
19. Stop letting others bring you down to
their level. – Refuse to lower your standards to accommodate those who refuse
to raise theirs.
20. Stop wasting time explaining yourself
to others. – Your friends don’t need it and your enemies won’t believe it
anyway. Just do what you know in your
heart is right.
21. Stop doing the same things over and
over without taking a break. – The time to take a deep breath is when you don’t
have time for it. If you keep doing what
you’re doing, you’ll keep getting what you’re getting. Sometimes you need to distance yourself to
see things clearly.
22. Stop overlooking the beauty of small
moments. – Enjoy the little things, because one day you may look back and
discover they were the big things. The
best portion of your life will be the small, nameless moments you spend smiling
with someone who matters to you.
23. Stop trying to make things perfect. –
The real world doesn’t reward perfectionists, it rewards people who get things
done. Read Getting Things Done .
24. Stop following the path of least
resistance. – Life is not easy, especially when you plan on achieving something
worthwhile. Don’t take the easy way
out. Do something extraordinary.
25. Stop acting like everything is fine if
it isn’t. – It’s okay to fall apart for a little while. You don’t always have to pretend to be
strong, and there is no need to constantly prove that everything is going
well. You shouldn’t be concerned with
what other people are thinking either – cry if you need to – it’s healthy to
shed your tears. The sooner you do, the
sooner you will be able to smile again.
26. Stop blaming others for your troubles.
– The extent to which you can achieve your dreams depends on the extent to
which you take responsibility for your life.
When you blame others for what you’re going through, you deny responsibility
– you give others power over that part of your life.
27. Stop trying to be everything to
everyone. – Doing so is impossible, and trying will only burn you out. But making one person smile CAN change the
world. Maybe not the whole world, but
their world. So narrow your focus.
28. Stop worrying so much. – Worry will not
strip tomorrow of its burdens, it will strip today of its joy. One way to check if something is worth
mulling over is to ask yourself this question: “Will this matter in one year’s time? Three years?
Five years?” If not, then it’s
not worth worrying about.
29. Stop focusing on what you don’t want to
happen. – Focus on what you do want to happen.
Positive thinking is at the forefront of every great success story. If you awake every morning with the thought
that something wonderful will happen in your life today, and you pay close
attention, you’ll often find that you’re right.
30. Stop being ungrateful. – No matter how
good or bad you have it, wake up each day thankful for your life. Someone somewhere else is desperately
fighting for theirs. Instead of thinking
about what you’re missing, try thinking about what you have that everyone else
is missing.
“You are the light of the world. A city set on a hill cannot be hidden. Nor do people light a lamp and put it under a basket, but on a stand, and it gives light to all in the house. In the same way, let your light shine before others, so that they may see your good works and give glory to your Father who is in heaven." Matthew 5:14-16
List originally taken from www.marcandangel.com
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